Whilst 2020 was a really wild ride, it was also an incredible year for sexual self-reflection and exploration. Loads of New Zealander’s used this year to invest in new toys, particularly during lockdown, where 30% of people purchased a sex toy*, according to global sexual wellness brand, Lovehoney. To look back at what has been a memorable year, Lovehoney’s resident Psycho-Sexologist Chantelle Otten shares her 2020 toys of choice, plus predictions for 2021.
Top 2020 Toys
I’ve never had a rabbit vibe before this year. How? I don’t know, I guess I was wondering if it was a fad. Boy, was I so, so wrong. The rabbit is incredible. The 2020 rabbit is so progressive and made of fantastic material, with vibrations that really hit the spot. This naughty G-spot rabbit vibrator is made from silky silicone with 36 possible vibration mode combinations. I mean … what’s not to love?
You can also chuck out your batteries because it is USB rechargeable, waterproof and travel-friendly with two powerful motors. Hitting the clit and the G-spot in all the right ways. I highly recommend it.
I’m a big believer in a prostate massager for ALL genders. If you have a penis, this baby can hit your P-spot and give you stronger erections and more powerful orgasms, plus can be used while you are having penetrative sex. PLUS, if you are a vulva owner, this feels great in the back door, too! This one is also remote control operated for ease of use, with eight modes and 12 intensity levels.
This one is for anyone who has just felt they need something a little different in the sexy game. It’s here to help you have fun and enhance your couple sex skills. It’s about enjoying the process. Taking it slowly and sensually. It’s also here to change up the recipe (especially if you have the same type of sex every time).
This top-notch pegging kit comes with a vibrator, adjustable straps and two dildo sizes. It’s the perfect beginners’ pegging kit. So, if you’re new to strap-on sex or are just looking for a complete kit, this is the one for you. Just add lube and good communication!
Handy for those who love clit stim, PLUS those who are loving from afar. Hold it on your clit and your partner can control it with their phone to give you those A++ clitgasms. Every vulva owner needs a clitoral vibrator, and this one ticks all the boxes. I also like that it is perfect for holding on your sweet spot during partnered play.
Top 2021 Tips
Invest In a Bondage Kit
You can get so much use and hours of play out of such an affordable kit. They are there for those saucy nights when either you or your partner/s want to be in control, and are a wonderful addition to your sex toolbox.
Getting a butt plug, especially one with a vibrating option, will enhance your pleasure and can be used while you are having the front of your genitals stimulated. Or! Controlled by the remote control while you are out and about. I see a real rise in normalising back door play in 2021.
Mini Wands and Their Attachments
You can see this amazing bundle, with a mini wand, G-spot vibe, bullet vibe and more. Grab that kit and Lovehoney’s new mini wand attachments for G-Spot Play and extra clit play. Functional and versatile. Smart toy shopping.
Because why should the receiver get all the fun? Strapless strap-ons allow for G-spot, clit and backdoor play, and how much more erotic than that can you get? A whole vibe for 2021.
Wishing you a sexually happy 2021!