Let’s talk about pegging.
In case you’re late to the party, pegging is when a women wears a strap-on dildo and penetrates her partner anally. Traditionally, this started out as an empowering form of role reversal between heterosexual couples, however there are plenty of lesbian couples who also practice pegging now!
As we become more sex-positive, references to pegging have started appearing in pop culture, with the likes of Broad City and Deadpool helping normalise the practice. It really is the hottest trend of 2018 – one you’ll definitely want to try out!
Why?
If your partner has never been interested in butt stuff, then you may be a little confused as to why anyone would partake in pegging. However, pegging actually has many benefits for both parties involved!
For women, pegging can be an empowering activity that allows for gender reversal, giving her full control. Many relationship psychologists and professionals actually believe this is a great way to increase trust in a relationship, given the change of roles and vulnerability. While we traditionally associate men as the dominant partner in the bedroom, and women as submissive, there’s no reason that all partners shouldn’t be equal lovers in the bedroom!
For men, the P-spot can be an incredibly erogenous area. Also known as the prostate, the P-spot is a small gland located between the penis, bladder, and rectum that can trigger intense orgasms when stimulated.
How?
If you’re interested in giving pegging a go, then it’s important to get all the essentials to stay safe and ensure your partner is comfortable!
Firstly, you’ll need lubricant to get things started, given the anus is not self-lubricating. Opt for something super long-lasting and water-based, as these lubes are safe to use with most toys and easy to clean up.
Next, you’ll need your strap-on! For beginners, something that is comfortable and easy to put on, with a slim dildo, is preferable.
The Fetish Fantasy First Time Strap-On Set is a great option if you’re just starting out, and includes everything you need in one handy set! The low-rise harness features a super-soft liner and sexy G-string style, with a stretchy material to accommodate most sizes. It’s a good idea to practice putting the harness on and make sure it fits, to avoid any awkward fumbling when things get hot and heavy.
The dildo has a tapered tip to allow for easy insertion, with a textured shaft for ultimate pleasure! If your partner is unsure about the size of this, give it to them beforehand and let them play around with it on their own. This will help them feel a bit more comfortable and means there will be no surprises when you pull it out!
Safety and hygiene
As with any sex toys, it’s important to ensure everything is clean at all times to avoid unwanted infections! If you’re sharing toys, they must be cleaned between every use, especially if you are switching from anal to vaginal play.
Using a sex toy cleaner is your best bet. To stay extra safe, you can also run your toy under hot water to help sterilise it and get rid of any bacteria.
Whether you’re attempting it with a long-term or new partner, it’s always important to make sure you are on the same page in terms of boundaries and limits when trying something new in bed! Keep things safe and comfortable at all times, and always ensure you are communicating regularly.
Pegging can be an incredibly empowering and exciting experience for both parties – so relax, have fun, and enjoy yourself!
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