How to make missionary sexy again

There’s nothing worse than feeling as though your relationship is lacking a certain something in the bedroom. If you’ve tried every position in the books to no avail, it may be time to re-invent an old classic: missionary.

Known as the go-to sex position for a majority of the population, missionary is commonly misrepresented as boring and uncreative. And while it may be considered a holy grail for some, there are dozens of ways to adapt and tweak this position for some more steamy action. It’s really up to you – how sexy are you and your partner willing to get?

Get Creative

The number one way to escalate your missionary experience is to switch up your positioning. Easy, right? This can be as simple as elevating your hips with a pillow or two, allowing your partner to penetrate from a different angle. Alternatively, if your weekly yoga sessions have done anything to help, propping your legs over your partner’s shoulders is a sure-fire way to intensify stimulation within minutes. Be sure to start off slow, especially if your partner is particularly well-endowed, as this one definitely allows for some deep penetration!

If you’ve already tried every position under the sun, it may be time to take things to the next level, pun intended. Introducing a piece of furniture, such as the Black Label Combo by Liberator, will help deepen penetration and intensify sex more than you could ever imagine! Designed with your ultimate comfort in mind, the Combo creates better angles, has multiples uses, and will revolutionize your love life.

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Spice Things Up

Playing around with your senses during missionary will help take you to a whole new world! Next time things are getting steamy, try some light bondage and get your partner to blindfold you using a sexy satin blindfold. With heightened sensory awareness, a simple blindfold can dramatically change the sensation you get from sex, increasing your anticipation and sexual desire tenfold. Be sure that whatever blindfold you reach for is secure and comfortable – there’s no time for distractions!

Tying your hands to a bedpost can instantly make missionary a whole lot sexier as well, and for bonus points, it takes only a few seconds to do! A product such as the Fetish Fantasy Series Mini Silk Rope is the perfect budget-friendly addition to your nightstand.

Time to Re-locate

Who says missionary is just for the bed? To switch things up a bit, try re-locating to a different part of the bedroom, or house! Not only is having sex somewhere different exciting, but it allows for new angles and sensations, plus it’s a little hot knowing you’ve gotten down and dirty on the dining room table.

Next time you’re cuddled up on the couch for a movie, consider taking things to the next level to really amp up the missionary position!

If you’re new to introducing sex toys in your relationship, missionary may be the best position to get you started! Try something from the We-Vibe range, such as the We-Vibe Sync. This is a couple’s must-have, allowing for hands-free stimulation for your clitoris and G-spot. With its non-obtrusive and sleek design, this vibe won’t get in the way of penetrative sex, but it will help to enhance the experience for the both of you. You can simply insert the We-Vibe and get straight into it, using the compatible App to change up the intensity with a click of a button. What’s not to love?


Sometimes all you need to make things a little sexier is a change in pace! If you routinely have sex every night before bed, why not switch it up and get your fix before you head out the door in the morning? Skip your morning social media scroll for some steamy missionary, and you’re guaranteed to have a smile on your face when you walk into work. Not only will you have more of a pep in your step for the day, but you’ll have the satisfaction of knowing that your partner’s day is off to a great start as well!

Your sex life might even be taking a toll due to long work days, so getting ahead of the game really is a win-win!

If missionary is really starting to seem like a chore in the bedroom, these tips will be sure to change things around in no time! Don’t let the simplicity of a mundane sex routine get between you and your partner’s pleasure: get creative!

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